Relationship Coaching is a professional client-focused service which assumes that individuals are healthy, powerful and able to achieve their relationship goals with effective support, information and guidance.
The key to a successful life partnership is being clear about what you want and making effective choices to get what you want. Once you achieve the necessary clarity, the choices and opportunities needed to be successful will easily present themselves in amazing ways!
In a relationship there are solvable problems and unsolvable problems. Unsolvable problems result in failed relationships and can be prevented or overcome with Relationship Coaching.
Fourteen Compelling Reasons to Use a Relationship Coach
The coaching relationship is unique and powerful, and really can help you find fulfilment in your life and relationships. Below are some important reasons to use a relationship coach, any one of which is compelling enough to get your very own coach today.
1. You Value Relationships Highly
You prioritise building fulfilling personal and professional relationships. You realise that your success and quality of life is directly connected to the quality of your relationships.
2. You Are Committed to Success
You are serious and intentional about having a fulfilling life partnership, family, business and community.
3. You Want Results
Working with a coach can move you further and faster than you can move on your own.
4. You Are Willing to Learn
You realise that you don’t know what you don’t know and your future success may depend upon access to new relationships, skills and knowledge.
5. You Are Ready for Action
Using a coach can be the most effective means of translating knowledge into practice. One of the most indispensable roles of a coach is to help you use what you already know to make effective choices and take the actions necessary to be successful.
6. You Are Open to Mentoring/Support
A relationship coach helps you to use your relationships to evolve and develop relationship skills critical to your business success and personal fulfilment. The process of self-discovery, learning about relationships and how to make successful relationship choices cannot be effectively self-taught or obtained from a book or CD.
7. You Want Fulfilment
You do not want to settle for less or risk preventable failure, and you are willing to give yourself the gift of the support and the technology needed to be successful.
8. You Want to Be True to Yourself
A relationship coach helps keep you honest with yourself, helps neutralise any tendency you may have to settle for less than you really want, is good for providing reality checks and being a sounding board.
9. You Want to Be Proactive
A relationship coach helps you solve problems while they are still small.
10. You Want to Go Beyond Your Limits
A relationship coach holds your highest vision for you beyond your fears and limitations and helps you overcome your obstacles and challenges.
11. You Want to Take Responsibility
A relationship coach helps you take responsibility for the quality of your relationships so that you can create them the way you want.
12. You want to Live Authentically
Today’s world is filled with challenges to finding and staying on your highest path, telling your truth and making choices that are best for you. A relationship coach helps you identify and live the life you really want and to be more of the person you really are and want to be.
13. You Want Balance in Your Life
Your life is filled with opportunities and conflicting choices. You recognise the importance of creating and maintaining balance in relationships, including the ones you have with yourself and your higher power.
14. You Want New Possibilities for Yourself and Your Relationships
You recognise that a healthy relationship is growing and dynamic. One of the worst things that can happen is to take one another or the relationship for granted. Opening to new possibilities helps a good relationship get better with the passage of time. A relationship coach helps you to continually discover and implement new and more fulfilling possibilities for your life and relationships.
Taken with permission from:
Conscious Dating: Self-Discovery and Readiness Workbook.
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